In What Adorably Creative Way Will you Beat Yourself Up Today?
“Nobody appreciates me” “I’m not allowed to feel sad because someone else has a harder time than me” “I give and give and give and people...
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Veronica Puryear
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To be seen is erotic.
To be seen is erotic. To know that you are seen for your whole self as you really are. To be radically witnessed in your grace, skills,...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
Many people experience a big awakening in the first couple of sessions with me. When they start identifying what they want, practicing...
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Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
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Veronica Puryear
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Fuck Virtue, Fuck Purity, Fuck Gatekeeping
Perfection is where pleasure goes to die. They say patience is a virtue. I say fuck virtue. Every day I think about Moms and caretakers...
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Veronica Puryear
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Anxiety happens....
Before you unravel… Remember that everyone gets nervous. I see so many clients—and my own lovers—get so lost in their own heads. You...
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Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
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Veronica Puryear
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Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy....
Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy? https://www.instagram.com/p/CbF8johp1h9/ Or are they: 💔 Used to getting shot down 💔 Terrified...
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Veronica Puryear
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You cannot accurately calibrate intimacy when you're overthinking
Ask yourself, “am I thinking for two?” You can (and I hope you do) have intimacy with yourself by listening to your body, honing your...
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Veronica Puryear
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Things I didn't realize were Codependency
Trying to do other people's work for them Walking on eggshells Jumping into problem solving Never letting anyone see me sweat or make...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your needs and desires are not a problem: But How You Show Up Matters
Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men, Are You Stuck On Your Journey?
I see you with your books. Trying to find the perfect juice cleanse, tapping on YouTube, swallowing up every podcast you can find. And I...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men, Stop Wasting Time Trying to Heal Alone
Intimacy is a shared experience. Don’t wait until you’re on your first date with someone new to remember that rush (and possible panic)....
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Veronica Puryear
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Becoming a Magnetic Man
Any one else desperately wish for more smooth, witty flirting? A lot of my masculine clients apologize to me for their energy. Or they...
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Veronica Puryear
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I Create My Own Pleasure
Make it your Mantra Often times when I ask my clients who are socialized as women what turns them on they say, “I don’t know.” Just like...
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Veronica Puryear
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Nobody is "Awakened" "Conscious" "Secure" all of the time
“…looking for a Conscious Man…” ….”when you find an Awakened Woman…” Do phrases like this trigger the f*ck out of anybody else? . I...
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Veronica Puryear
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I Want to be Loved; Not to Perform
I want to explore everything there is to know about sex... AND I want to be loved as I am, in my simplest, most raw form without...
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Veronica Puryear
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There is No Right Thing To Do: Only What Feels Right
There’s a lot of advice and ‘shoulds’ out there. The choices that you make matter, but they are just that—your choices. You could decide...
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Veronica Puryear
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Healing Work Can Trigger Perfectionism
I’m triggered. Sometimes in my education around relationships or mindfulness I can see where I ‘went wrong’ in a relationship. Or maybe I...
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Veronica Puryear
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To get what you want from love and relationships, own your desires
Are you rejecting your desires before someone else can? I talk about this concept with people so often and also reflect on it a lot...
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