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Love is Patient, Love is Kind...And Sometimes Love Says, "Cut the Sh*t, Honey Buns."
I know you THINK you’re ensuring that you’ll always be held and understood (and one up!) by being the perfect lil angel in your...
Veronica Puryear
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When Traditional therapy Isn't Working (Watch me get fired up about this one!)
Somatic Intimacy Coaching is like this: 1. We’ll chat about what juicy, connected intimacy would feel like for you and what kinds of...
Veronica Puryear
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A sneaky trick of guilt and shame in relationship (and subconscious ways we blame others for our discomfort)
Do you find yourself getting defensive when you do things for yourself or take up space in your relationship? Do you imagine your partner...
Veronica Puryear
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Indelicate Intimacy the Book! Practical Magic and Unconventional Insights you can take home (or download) right now!
Indelicate Intimacy reveals the secrets of secure and sexy love by helping you understand and manage the subtle energy and big feelings.
Veronica Puryear
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Bratty Kid Behavior and How to Deal (whether it’s your actual kids or an inner child…)
Take it from a somatic intimacy coach who meets the inner children of all of my sweet, perfectionist, hardworking, magical clients every...
Veronica Puryear
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Healing Trauma is Simpler Than You Think....
A truly skilled practitioner (something I believe is rare, if I'm being honest) is someone who understands you beyond a simply technical...
Veronica Puryear
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"I should just let this go..." "If they could just do this ONE thing..."
The ways in which we are critical of ourselves often creates so much resistance and distortion in our minds. If you could just BE...
Veronica Puryear
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Where I'm hiding from deeper intimacy...
I’m guilty. Guilty of holding back and keeping my most tender self a secret. In my downturned glances and with a clench of my jaw, I stop...
Veronica Puryear
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"I feel more at peace than I ever have"
These are notes from a client who was once a VERY anxious person. "I feel so much more powerful and in my body. I feel grateful for...
Veronica Puryear
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'Effortless' love is on the other side of a skill level and open heart that you don't yet have.
This is for the guy having a tantrum in my virtual office saying… “She should just know! I shouldn’t have to tell her!” …it’s also for...
Veronica Puryear
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No, you’re not a People Pleaser
I can’t take another social media post about people pleasing. Why? First, why does everything need an official-ish sounding and degrading...
Veronica Puryear
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Fluidity as Philosophy...The Ethos of Indelicate
Good luck trying to get me to make you feel wrong about something because I mostly believe that right and wrong are simply not a thing....
Veronica Puryear
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The Common Understanding of Settling is a Hot Mess
I’m regularly annoyed and sometimes even disturbed to see relationship experts and therapists posting content that recommends settling....
Veronica Puryear
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In Defense of Non-Linear Relationships
If you are a person who grows, you will change. If you are alive on this planet, on this astral plane....you will have ruptures like...
Veronica Puryear
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Everything About You Makes Perfect Sense, My Darling
Everything about you makes perfect sense because of.... The way your cells were formed in your mother's womb... The nervous system you...
Veronica Puryear
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I'm Difficult, a Lone Wolf, Avoidant, Protective, Perfectionist...
I'm talking about me this time. A coach called me prickly today. The big trigger. That I'm perceived as hard to understand and difficult...
Veronica Puryear
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What Is A 1:1 Session Like? What Can I Expect?
What happens in a session? ***Please note that all sessions are fully clothed and that we will not have intercourse.*** In sessions, I...
Veronica Puryear
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"I just Need to Find The Right Partner, Then I'll be Happy and Everything Will Work Out"
I hear this AND OTHER SUCH EXCUSES constantly. "When the timing is right,"..."When the right match finally comes along,"...."When I find...
Veronica Puryear
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Five Things I Didn't Realize Were Codependent
If you grew up managing a parent’s mood or behaviors (or were raised by someone with that trauma)… You might have learned that: 👎it’s...
Veronica Puryear
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Why do I feel bad about wanting attention?!
#1 It is human nature to desire attention and for many people there is no such thing as too much. BUT! You feel shame about wanting...
Veronica Puryear
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