Love Like No Other
Year-Long Intimacy Immersion for 1:1 and Couples
Elevate all aspects of your intimate connections through somatic healing and nervous system expansion with relationship specialist and certified coach Veronica aka Indelicate Coaching.
Want to feel less anxious and critical in love? Fight Fair? Express yourself without unravelling or fearing the worst? Embrace your sexy side? Open the door for magic and better serve the loves of your life?
Whether you're a solo traveler, partners seeking better connection, or a fellow above-average healer ready for new heights of mastery...
Darlings, you've found the place.
You're longing to....
Be seen and appreciated
Stop repeating the same fights
End self sabotage and old doubts
Release anxiety, drama, and trauma
Reject stale routines and unleash your desires
Receive love and pleasure freely
Feel powerful and radiant in your body
Your Dream of Next-Level Passion and Depth
is a Vision that Can Absolutely be Made Real
I'm not here to teach you how to settle or follow a bunch of rules.
Through a masterful weaving of Embodiment and Expert Relationship Guidance, I pull back the curtain and reveal the secrets of true intimacy.
Those secrets lie in a regulated nervous system and some not-so-basic insights into what's really going on inside of you and your relationship dynamics.
But we won't stop at romance...As these mysteries click for you and become your new reality, you will also find improvement in your overall wellbeing.
This is unlike anything you've tried.
My specialized relationship training and somatic approach will help you talk about and feel your challenges in a way that will gently get to the root of your emotions, get you unstuck from the hamster wheel of your overthinking mind, and regulate your nervous system better and faster than other methods that emphasize analysis.
As we grow, we pick up strategies like perfectionism, people pleasing, procrastinating, bottling up emotions, and compulsive behaviors to help us feel love and avoid discomfort. Intellectualizing or thinking about these strategies can only get us so far.
Talking in circles, debating, or venting can make us feel like we're accomplishing something, but after we're done, we revert back to the same frustration, confusion, and behaviors because ranting or repeating ourselves isn't actually helping to move the tension we feel inside.
When you're overthinking, shutting down, nitpicking, talking your friend's ears off, scrambling to stay busy, resisting pleasure, lashing out, bingeing, or running from affection, those are all signs that your systems are overwhelmed and that the stories of your mind and the feelings in your body are out of balance.
This year you will...
Discover true emotional availability
Drop petty habits like blame, passive aggression, and name calling
Quiet overthinking and find more pleasure in the moment
Calibrate your nervous system to be calm and capable of change
Heal the shadow of old hurts so they stop running the show
Flirt and laugh your way through sticky moments
Understand your partner even more than you thought possible
I Will Skillfully Lead You to Your Growth Edges
You can meet your past and future selves while staying safely rooted in today.
Many people will hesitate to engage in this level of rebirth and revelation for fear of getting lost in the weeds or stuck in an emotional process you can't get out of. Maybe you're afraid of opening a can of worms in your life or relationship. I get it.
I have learned through experience how to keep you grounded in the here and now and how to handle unexpected twists and turns that arise through the healing process both individually and between partners. I've got you.
This commitment to safely travel through subconscious patterns and unspoken desires informs the structure and pacing of this year-long offer. I have seen this unfolding many times and the path is very much on purpose.
In 3 Months....
The first three months is a time to wake up to and learn how to effectively talk about your feelings and desires beyond complaint and analysis. I know you think you already know how to do this but this is ESPECIALLY for those who have tons of practice already. As you discover both familiar and surprising protective mechanisms, you soften and open in a new way.
People will start to wonder what's different about you.
In 6 Months....
You begin to boldly embody the things that you've learned. No more performing or parroting facts about what great intimacy SHOULD be like because you're actually living it. (When you hear people sharing 'facts' about human behavior and relationships you'll have moments where you realize that most people don't actually get it.)
You're dwelling less in your mind and more in your body. As partners, you will find that you get in and out of conflict much faster and with less damage to your union. As a healer, you can feel that your wisdom and personal power is sinking into the systems of your clients and community with greater ease and trust.
You can't imagine ever going back to the old version of you and you won't.
A Year Passes....
This is where you take the lead in your own life.
As you expand, you may uncover challenges that you've been avoiding. This is the boss level where all of your skills and values are put to the test. When you realize how capable you are, you comfortably soar into wilder love and juicier expression.
You know in your bones what it means to feel calm, alive, and present.
Finally, you actually feel confident. You can easily self soothe through anxiety. You can sweep people off of their feet. You're here to seduce the wild unknown rather than fear it and can surrender into erotic and day-to-day pleasure.
It's SO MUCH harder for anything or anyone to throw off your vibe. As partners, you feel clearer about what you are creating and have a rock solid skillset to handle anything.
These priceless lessons start at day one and deepen with every session, voice memo, video, and *aha* moment of integration...
Learn heart-centered conflict and repair
Give and surrender to pleasure with ease and passion
Feel more trust and freedom in relationship
Move away from avoidance and anxiety and toward secure attachment
Release outside pressures that are keeping you small
Stop worrying about being "too much" or "not enough"
Create a sexier environment for hotter and sweeter connection
Dear Couples, you get a hybrid of joint deep dives and 1:1 sessions. Parallel 1:1 sessions give you the opportunity to rise to new levels individually and as a pair.
Try a Session to get started.
If you sign up within 30 days of your session,
I will credit up to $250 of your session to your membership.
When you sign up, you will receive an agreement and instructions for scheduling.
Sessions are available online Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday in Pacific Time Zone.
Your Transformation Includes..
For 1:1 clients: 16 virtual sessions
For Partners: 24 virtual sessions (hybrid of solo and together time)
Voice and Text support for in-the-moment celebrations, questions, and SOS
Unlimited Access to my Video Library of pleasure, seduction, and deep relating
Why this number of sessions? You will start out with a regular, maybe even fast-paced schedule of meetings with me and then find that you need time to integrate, go on vacation, or be in your own energy for a while to put your skills to the test. These critical pauses can be built into the program to suit your unique lifestyle and *phew* you get to come back when real life brings you new challenges.
P.S. My 20% tax rate is already included in the prices above. Ya' welcome.
Hi! I'm Veronica!
I'm a Certified Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach
Equally comfortable with science and spirituality, I’m able to distill complex knowledge into something digestible and potent that will be paced to your individual needs and comfort level.
There are no stuffy lessons for you to process in my sessions. I blend all that I’ve learned and all that I intuitively feel into something you can actually use right now. I can feel the things that sometimes even you are not aware of and will help you to uncover those hidden blocks.
You will come away from every session energized and with actionable feedback.
If you’re here, I know that you’re growth-oriented and always seeking answers--whether it’s in the books you’re reading or trying out all sorts of meditation techniques.
As a recovering perfectionist myself and forever healing fanatic, I get you, I know how to help you, and I will deliver radical honesty and unconditional acceptance to you in a way that you will find is simply unrivaled in the ordinary world.
You belong here.
My clients are people and partners of all genders, ages, and lifestyles. Vanilla, Kinky, Never-Been-Kissed, Married and Monogamous, Festival-Hopping-Free-Lovers, and Sunday School Teachers.... you're all welcome here.
Intimacy is about connection.
Your healing should be too.
We need other people to grow in intimacy.
In intimacy, we will be challenged not only by our own defenses, but also by all of the socialization and protective behaviors of our friends, partners, coworkers, families, and neighbors. This requires resilience and practice.
Relationship and attachment wounds are healed in relationship.
That is why I emphasize connection over what is 'right' or 'wrong' and why my sessions get personal. This means you will learn things about me and hear some of my own stories and experiences and feel my genuine--never clinical--reaction to whatever you share as we both practice vulnerability.
You will learn how to drop the performance, feel less guarded, navigate conflict, be more playful, feel alive in your body, and hold loving and expansive boundaries in a totally judgement-free zone.
Whether you have a partner in the sessions with you or not, your focus on healing yourself will have a ripple effect into your whole community.
I've learned from my clients what works and how to best structure this program.
Here's what they have to say about the work....
"Our couples sessions with Veronica are better quality and more intimate and experienced than
every certified relationship therapist I have ever been to." -Emily Otto, of Rebelle INC
Check out this video of Emily and her husband, Connor who spent six months with me managing new life, community, and career transitions. This is us casually chatting at the end of my work day (post sauna) and after they had just put their two young children to bed....which is to say there are some swear words and adult content, fyi
They're not the only ones! Scroll down for plenty more...
"I think I'm always surprised when a service actually works well ;). Compared to regular therapy this is much more directed and purposeful, with a clear goal."
"I've been surprised by how “easy” it feels. The work is not easy, but the way Veronica facilitates the sessions is so skillful. I learn so much about interaction and connection in such a short amount of time, every time." Sweet Monica is one of my first clients and generously agreed to share how we've grown together over the years. She is a magical one.
"I’ve been in and out of therapy for many years with many different therapists. Coaching with Veronica has worked better and faster than anything I have tried."
"Before I started working with Veronica I thought of dating like a game--something I could intellectualize. Veronica has shown me how to be authentically myself and how that can foster real, intimate connection. I feel very comfortable with Veronica in a way that I have not experienced with anyone else."
"All of my married friends could use this work."
"We've done couples therapy with a PhD level psychologist and didn't get to even 10% of what we uncovered with Veronica in three months."
Claire and John. This couple of cuties first entered my world by watching my Unlocking Pleasure series together. They took notes, watched and rewatched then jumped on the chance to work 2:1 when I offered them an exclusive opportunity to meet biweekly for three months in the Fall of 2022. (They learned so much, imagine what a whole year could encourage!)
In this chat they discusss how this work is different from traditional therapy, share a sweet moment of vulnerability together, and have a lot of giggles that I mostly edited out. Don't worry, because I couldn't resist, some of their teasing made it into the closing of this conversation.
"I Think you're a witch and I'm here for it."
"I can share things with Veronica that I would never tell another person, especially a woman, because I'd be afraid of being judged or having the story turned on me."
"Veronica was the first person to ever help me understand that my body is mine. [In our couples work] We got more out of our sessions with Veronica than any couples therapy we have had. And in much less time. [In solo coaching] Veronica holds amazing space. She made me feel safe, wanted and appreciated. She validated my feelings and experience deeply."
"Veronica helped me through the hardest moment of my life. I've had a lot of therapists, but Veronica's coaching is different. It's more intimate (obviously), but really it's about the fact that she is wiser than any therapist I've had. She challenges me, but she also cares about me in a real way. She's patient, she's flirty, and she's firm in her resolve. Perhaps most importantly, she taught me to cry. I can't recommend her enough--though I'm reluctant to because I want to keep her to myself."
"I felt completely at ease. Veronica is engaging, both physically and spiritually, and her energy radiates through the screen."
"I finally plucked up the courage to share my more innate desires and kinks with my partner...and I was met with so much support, encouragement and excitement. So I wanted to say thank you so much for your help - the unlocking pleasure videos, our session[s] and your Instagram posts built up my confidence to be brave and battle through the shame :) I think I was hiding behind 'not knowing' how I could experience more pleasure as it was less vulnerable, but deep down I had the answers all along and just needed to communicate!"
"Veronica has a presence about her that gently invites vulnerability. From the jump I knew I was safe with her. It was easy for me to share aspects of my personal story with Veronica and receive the genuine care and compassion that she was able to offer. She’s someone who contains an abundance of capacity. I felt seen, acknowledged, and understood."
Feeling excited and curious how a session goes? Check out this chat with one of my longtime faves, Tricia. We had this debrief after a session where we addressed some acute feelings of anxiety post birthday bash. Maybe you recognize this young queen of the internet! She is also known online as Safe Slut and is a rising star of the modern sex education world, making destigmatization of STIs and sexual expression fun and cheeky (my kind of woman!).
What to expect in your Immersion:
Somatic Embodiment - feel the pulse of what's alive right now like jealousy, anxiety, insecurity, numbness, excitement, gratitude, grief, arousal. Work with longstanding trauma or disconnect that lives in your body. You will walk away from these sessions relieved and energized.
Parts Work - meet your inner managers and protectors who help you stay safe and sometimes get in your way with habits like perfectionism and procrastination. You will come away from these sessions with the ability to feel when a pattern is bubbling up in the moment.
Parts Work Deep Dive - travel in time to better understand fragmented parts of yourself who have gotten lost or been ignored. You will come away from these sessions unburdened and with a fresh start on at least one of your recurring patterns.
Attachment - embrace your longing for closeness and unpack the ways you resist it with perspective shifts and gentle connection exercises. You will come away from these sessions more centered and calibrated to connection.
Repair - learn the steps and principles of collaborative conflict with live intervention. You will come away from these sessions having resolved a spat and with new tools to squash your repeating fights.
Desire and Shadow Work - explore fantasies and needs and how it feels to discuss spicy topics. This includes subconscious or taboo desires that you may not aware of yet. You don't have to tell anyone about these edgier yearnings, but suddenly so many things will make sense that have never clicked before. You will come away from these sessions lit up and ready to relish your secrets or share what feels exciting for you.
Agreements - express your needs and boundaries. You will come away from these sessions with clarity, practice, and a plan.
Brainstorm - review solutions for a sticky situation or a roadblock from anything to a problem at work to a physical challenge in the bedroom. You will come away from these sessions with some ideas and next steps.
You will experience one or a combination of the above exercises and topics in every session. Some people or couples will spend a lot of time in one area, like Repair for example, while others may travel all around the different types. It varies by individual personality and stage of life. At play in every session: empathy, attunement, breath, and laughter.
Count on Sustainable Growth
Between Sessions with
Voice Memo and Text Support
Many of my clients have their biggest breakthroughs
between sessions because that is when life happens.
With the Telegram App, you can send a note straight to me
after a bad date, before an important conversation, or to
share your self-love wins right there in the moment!
Learn even more with pleasure workshops and a
whole library of wickedly sharp insights...
When you sign up for this year-long immersion,
you get immediate access to my video workshops
including my Unlocking Pleasure workshop
for sexy skills that go well beyond the basics.
Open any body to Ultimate Pleasure...
Get more comfortable with your partner's anatomy...
Manage and work through emotional blocks and resentment...
You'll also have instant access to Siren & Sovereign, my cheeky blend of courses to release the patterns of our codependent culture while bringing your most seductive self forward.
Lovers, Even the most popular relationship advice won't get you far without the right foundation. Come with me to reset your foundation not just now, but for a lifetime.