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Ladies, Femmes, and Sensitive Gems...Is Your Partner Tuning You Out No Matter How Much You Talk About Your Needs and Feelings?
Why your relationship talks are falling flat or getting tuned out.
Veronica Puryear
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Are you leaning forward in Love? Always the first to text and fill the silence?
Always the first to text in relationships? Wonder why others don't take more initiative?
Veronica Puryear
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Love is Patient, Love is Kind...And Sometimes Love Says, "Cut the Sh*t, Honey Buns."
I know you THINK you’re ensuring that you’ll always be held and understood (and one up!) by being the perfect lil angel in your...
Veronica Puryear
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Three Underrated Luxuries of Secure (and SEXY!) Love
Surprisingly signs that you feel happy and secure in your love and relationships.
Veronica Puryear
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Mismatched Desire: When one partner wants sex and the other does not (and the joyful path back to connection...)
What do you do when one person says, "I want connection first," and the other insists, "I have to be physical to feel close!"
Veronica Puryear
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Where I'm hiding from deeper intimacy...
I’m guilty. Guilty of holding back and keeping my most tender self a secret. In my downturned glances and with a clench of my jaw, I stop...
Veronica Puryear
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'Effortless' love is on the other side of a skill level and open heart that you don't yet have.
This is for the guy having a tantrum in my virtual office saying… “She should just know! I shouldn’t have to tell her!” …it’s also for...
Veronica Puryear
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The Common Understanding of Settling is a Hot Mess
I’m regularly annoyed and sometimes even disturbed to see relationship experts and therapists posting content that recommends settling....
Veronica Puryear
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Why Men Shut Down.
Feeling exhausted by the not-so-subtle nitpicking of your partner? Or maybe you're just so worn out from having to guess what people want...
Veronica Puryear
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What is Intimacy Anyway?
Intimacy is what happens between the lines.... It is a wordless but felt sense of closeness It is a vibe It is energy It is subtext It is...
Veronica Puryear
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Everybody's A Little Kinky (So why does it feel like a dirty secret?)
I don’t talk about this on social media often (hello, highly public and censored platforms!) but I know it’s the reason so many of you...
Veronica Puryear
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I'm Difficult, a Lone Wolf, Avoidant, Protective, Perfectionist...
I'm talking about me this time. A coach called me prickly today. The big trigger. That I'm perceived as hard to understand and difficult...
Veronica Puryear
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What Is A 1:1 Session Like? What Can I Expect?
What happens in a session? ***Please note that all sessions are fully clothed and that we will not have intercourse.*** In sessions, I...
Veronica Puryear
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"I just Need to Find The Right Partner, Then I'll be Happy and Everything Will Work Out"
I hear this AND OTHER SUCH EXCUSES constantly. "When the timing is right,"..."When the right match finally comes along,"...."When I find...
Veronica Puryear
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Remember how it feels to be sexy...
SIREN + SOVEREIGN is a video workshop for women that will help you create epic sex and relationships by breaking out of the super common...
Veronica Puryear
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Women Have Darkness and Imperfections and Men Have So Much Love to Give
Let women be imperfect and let men step into the light. When we paint women as perfect or as perpetual victims of the foibles of men we...
Veronica Puryear
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You're giving Mother where you're meant to be Lover
You don’t understand how you can give everything, do everything for them and they still don’t show up for you or return the favor. This...
Veronica Puryear
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Why is Women's Pleasure so Elusive?
Why is women’s pleasure such a mystery and why are we so quickly resigned to believing that we have gone as far as we can with it? I’ve...
Veronica Puryear
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The Person Who is Blowing Your Mind is here to Show You What is Possible
(That Doesn't Mean you Have to Be Together Now or Forever) I hear this a lot, and I’ve experienced it myself. Trust me, because I only...
Veronica Puryear
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Why I Don't Believe in Foreplay
Video: https://www.instagram.com/p/CUskurLpGJJ/ Forget ‘Foreplay’ and Make Every Moment Count In my world, foreplay doesn’t exist....
Veronica Puryear
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