Bedtime stories...First she healed her anxiety, then she drew him closer with her energy...
This is the story of a formerly *very* anxious wife and a guarded husband who have been experiencing some intense conflict in the last...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your anxiety, patterns, and block are not who YOU are.
The PART of you that: Shuts down when you feel discouraged Spirals when your partner feels far away Is endlessly critical of yourself and...
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Veronica Puryear
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'Effortless' love is on the other side of a skill level and open heart that you don't yet have.
This is for the guy having a tantrum in my virtual office saying… “She should just know! I shouldn’t have to tell her!” …it’s also for...
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Veronica Puryear
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Fluidity as Philosophy...The Ethos of Indelicate
Good luck trying to get me to make you feel wrong about something because I mostly believe that right and wrong are simply not a thing....
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Veronica Puryear
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Independent, Reserved, and Aloof People Need Deeper Connection, Not Less
More connection not less. A discovery from my own avoidant moments. Sometimes people confuse my resistance to closeness as a desire to be...
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Veronica Puryear
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In Time of Intensity Call Your Energy Back to Yourself....
Your Reminder to Take Exquisite Care of Yourself... Intimacy means that our energy may become scattered and spread out amongst our loved...
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Veronica Puryear
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In Defense of Non-Linear Relationships
If you are a person who grows, you will change. If you are alive on this planet, on this astral plane....you will have ruptures like...
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Veronica Puryear
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Why Men Shut Down.
Feeling exhausted by the not-so-subtle nitpicking of your partner? Or maybe you're just so worn out from having to guess what people want...
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Veronica Puryear
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Five Things I Didn't Realize Were Codependent
If you grew up managing a parent’s mood or behaviors (or were raised by someone with that trauma)… You might have learned that: 👎it’s...
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Veronica Puryear
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If You Get Triggered By Their Venting Then You Might Actually Be The One With The Problem
Did you catch my reel about getting triggered? Maybe it’s actually pretty hard for you to listen without… ⛈ taking something personally ⛈...
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Veronica Puryear
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How Even Givers Make This Mistake In Love...
This just needs to be said. Love is not a thing you "get" from someone. Are you treating Love as something transactional or like a...
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Veronica Puryear
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Giving critiques can often feel more familiar and easy than giving love
Sometimes judgement feels like the only safe way to say, “I care.” Being sincere is hard and vulnerable. Intimacy, true vulnerable...
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Veronica Puryear
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Reason #1 Your Sex, Relationships, Pleasure Aren't Working?
You're Not Clear On What You Want Has anyone ever asked you what you want and you just kind froze? Maybe because nobody has ever asked...
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Veronica Puryear
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In What Adorably Creative Way Will you Beat Yourself Up Today?
“Nobody appreciates me” “I’m not allowed to feel sad because someone else has a harder time than me” “I give and give and give and people...
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Veronica Puryear
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Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy are a guarantee of anything
Words and labels are meaningless without explicit and ongoing agreement between you and your partner(s). No one relationship dynamic is...
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Veronica Puryear
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Celebrate men for following their integrity even if their plans don't include you
My date left earlier than expected last night to take care of something in his life. Something important. I was touched by the tenderness...
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Veronica Puryear
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When someone tells you that they're triggered, that's a vulnerable invitation to love them more
When someone tells you that they're triggered, they are essentially giving you the cheat codes on how to love them. A trigger is...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
Many people experience a big awakening in the first couple of sessions with me. When they start identifying what they want, practicing...
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Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
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Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
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