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Mismatched Desire: When one partner wants sex and the other does not (and the joyful path back to connection...)
What do you do when one person says, "I want connection first," and the other insists, "I have to be physical to feel close!"
Veronica Puryear
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"If it's Not a Full-Body 'Fuck Yes'....Maybe You're Scared."
If you have a choice to make and your body is resisting by showing anxiety....you're probably scared and that doesn't automatically mean...
Veronica Puryear
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Experiential Somatic Intimacy Coaching is different from traditional therapy in three key ways
As a former appointee of a Presidential Administration, I'm no stranger to the burnout and disconnection that comes from our fast-paced...
Veronica Puryear
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Everybody's A Little Kinky (So why does it feel like a dirty secret?)
I don’t talk about this on social media often (hello, highly public and censored platforms!) but I know it’s the reason so many of you...
Veronica Puryear
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Remember how it feels to be sexy...
SIREN + SOVEREIGN is a video workshop for women that will help you create epic sex and relationships by breaking out of the super common...
Veronica Puryear
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You're giving Mother where you're meant to be Lover
You don’t understand how you can give everything, do everything for them and they still don’t show up for you or return the favor. This...
Veronica Puryear
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How much of your dreams can you actually handle?
How much discomfort can you handle? (Disappointing others, saying ‘No’) How much joy? (Letting people love you, feeling satisfied and...
Veronica Puryear
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Everything I say here about leadership in love….It is also true for sex.
Set aside your perceptions of ‘Top’ and ‘Bottom’ for a moment. Forget about gender identities and ideas about who gives and who receives....
Veronica Puryear
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Why is Women's Pleasure so Elusive?
Why is women’s pleasure such a mystery and why are we so quickly resigned to believing that we have gone as far as we can with it? I’ve...
Veronica Puryear
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I’ve always been wild.
But the wild parts haven’t always been so…on the surface. You see, I was not born a sex coach. I did not walk out of the ocean like...
Veronica Puryear
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I Lost The Ability To Orgasm
Or rather, I misplaced it. Have you seen the post that says, "people who cum from penetrative sex, what's it like to be God's favorite?"...
Veronica Puryear
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Most of Us Are Just Barely Scratching the Surface of Pleasure
All of us have the potential for wild, immersive, ecstatic, PLEASURE-FULL experiences… And yet we’re skipping right over most of the...
Veronica Puryear
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The Person Who is Blowing Your Mind is here to Show You What is Possible
(That Doesn't Mean you Have to Be Together Now or Forever) I hear this a lot, and I’ve experienced it myself. Trust me, because I only...
Veronica Puryear
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Why I Don't Believe in Foreplay
Video: https://www.instagram.com/p/CUskurLpGJJ/ Forget ‘Foreplay’ and Make Every Moment Count In my world, foreplay doesn’t exist....
Veronica Puryear
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Reason #1 Your Sex, Relationships, Pleasure Aren't Working?
You're Not Clear On What You Want Has anyone ever asked you what you want and you just kind froze? Maybe because nobody has ever asked...
Veronica Puryear
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Am I Difficult Or Am I Courageous Enough to State My Needs?
Normalize having desires… and actually making them known! I get pretty emotional in the part of my workshop where I ask you to imagine...
Veronica Puryear
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To be in your Sensuality and Flow...You Must Let Go...and for both you Need Safety
Want to be in your pleasure? Radiant? Unbothered? Jiggling down the street, flauntin’ it if ya got it? (You know you got it 💃🏻) First...
Veronica Puryear
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Your Pleasure Education is Just Beginning and You are Your Most Important Teacher
I am built for pleasure. I am destined for it. We all are. But we are so quickly stripped of and shamed for it—the pleasure that is our...
Veronica Puryear
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I am a healer who deals in the unseen....
I am a healer who deals in the unseen. A doula who can safely guide younger selves and unspoken shadows into the open where they can be...
Veronica Puryear
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Having Boundaries has nothing to do with being rigid
Having Boundaries has nothing to do with being rigid. I am probably way more boundaried than your average person but I am also VERY...
Veronica Puryear
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