Fluidity as Philosophy...The Ethos of Indelicate
Good luck trying to get me to make you feel wrong about something because I mostly believe that right and wrong are simply not a thing....
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Veronica Puryear
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The Common Understanding of Settling is a Hot Mess
I’m regularly annoyed and sometimes even disturbed to see relationship experts and therapists posting content that recommends settling....
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Veronica Puryear
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Independent, Reserved, and Aloof People Need Deeper Connection, Not Less
More connection not less. A discovery from my own avoidant moments. Sometimes people confuse my resistance to closeness as a desire to be...
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Veronica Puryear
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Why Men Shut Down.
Feeling exhausted by the not-so-subtle nitpicking of your partner? Or maybe you're just so worn out from having to guess what people want...
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Veronica Puryear
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Everybody's A Little Kinky (So why does it feel like a dirty secret?)
I don’t talk about this on social media often (hello, highly public and censored platforms!) but I know it’s the reason so many of you...
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Veronica Puryear
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I'm Difficult, a Lone Wolf, Avoidant, Protective, Perfectionist...
I'm talking about me this time. A coach called me prickly today. The big trigger. That I'm perceived as hard to understand and difficult...
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Veronica Puryear
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"I just Need to Find The Right Partner, Then I'll be Happy and Everything Will Work Out"
I hear this AND OTHER SUCH EXCUSES constantly. "When the timing is right,"..."When the right match finally comes along,"...."When I find...
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Veronica Puryear
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How Even Givers Make This Mistake In Love...
This just needs to be said. Love is not a thing you "get" from someone. Are you treating Love as something transactional or like a...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men, now is not the time to overcorrect.
Men and people who are raising young men. Toxic shame which leads to unhealthy masculinity which leads to disassociation, trauma,...
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Veronica Puryear
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Celebrate men for following their integrity even if their plans don't include you
My date left earlier than expected last night to take care of something in his life. Something important. I was touched by the tenderness...
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Veronica Puryear
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So many masculine people worry that their energy is harmful
Regardless of your socialized or lived gender experience, you have likely internalized the idea that men are dangerous. That their sexual...
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Veronica Puryear
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People of all genders experience relationship anxiety
People read text messages over and over. People lay awake in bed replaying the thing they did or didn’t do. People freeze up and can’t...
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Veronica Puryear
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Going with the flow is not the favor you think it is.
You want to be a classy dude. A feminist. You want to respect her space and to never "assume" anything physical or romantic will happen....
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Veronica Puryear
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Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy....
Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy? https://www.instagram.com/p/CbF8johp1h9/ Or are they: 💔 Used to getting shot down 💔 Terrified...
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Veronica Puryear
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The Hottest Masculine Expression is Your Own
Stop performing someone else’s version of masculinity. You don’t have to learn a “game” or “moves” you need to be able to feel your OWN...
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Veronica Puryear
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What I'm gonna do to you...
Do you like it when I’m in charge? When I make you stop ✋ and take a breath… 👄 … so you can pause and be fully present? I know how much...
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Veronica Puryear
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You cannot accurately calibrate intimacy when you're overthinking
Ask yourself, “am I thinking for two?” You can (and I hope you do) have intimacy with yourself by listening to your body, honing your...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your needs and desires are not a problem: But How You Show Up Matters
Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...
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Veronica Puryear
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How do we exchange erotic energy if we’re not having s*x?
Is it still an exchange if there’s no org*sm? This seems like a tough concept for most guys A lot of guys get confused when they realize...
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Veronica Puryear
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What My Clients Say is Different About Intimacy Coaching....
How is Somatic Relationship Coaching with me different from other healing modalities you have tried when it comes to.... Relationship...
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