"I should just let this go..." "If they could just do this ONE thing..."
The ways in which we are critical of ourselves often creates so much resistance and distortion in our minds. If you could just BE...
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Veronica Puryear
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Where I'm hiding from deeper intimacy...
I’m guilty. Guilty of holding back and keeping my most tender self a secret. In my downturned glances and with a clench of my jaw, I stop...
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Veronica Puryear
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'Effortless' love is on the other side of a skill level and open heart that you don't yet have.
This is for the guy having a tantrum in my virtual office saying… “She should just know! I shouldn’t have to tell her!” …it’s also for...
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Veronica Puryear
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No, you’re not a People Pleaser
I can’t take another social media post about people pleasing. Why? First, why does everything need an official-ish sounding and degrading...
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Veronica Puryear
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Sometimes That Confused Feeling Is You Confronting a Growing Edge
The energy of this week has been funky. I’ve seen it on others and also felt it myself. Yet, somehow I just know the challenge is a sign...
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Veronica Puryear
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What is Intimacy Anyway?
Intimacy is what happens between the lines.... It is a wordless but felt sense of closeness It is a vibe It is energy It is subtext It is...
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Veronica Puryear
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One Year of Epic Growth and the Foundation It is Built On
One year. Celebrating milestones is not a strong suit of mine. I don’t like planning for them and I don’t know how to ask to be...
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Veronica Puryear
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Everything I say here about leadership in love….It is also true for sex.
Set aside your perceptions of ‘Top’ and ‘Bottom’ for a moment. Forget about gender identities and ideas about who gives and who receives....
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Veronica Puryear
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I’ve always been wild.
But the wild parts haven’t always been so…on the surface. You see, I was not born a sex coach. I did not walk out of the ocean like...
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Veronica Puryear
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Most of Us Are Just Barely Scratching the Surface of Pleasure
All of us have the potential for wild, immersive, ecstatic, PLEASURE-FULL experiences… And yet we’re skipping right over most of the...
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Veronica Puryear
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The Masks We Wear and How They Block Our Pleasure
WELL IF IT ISN’T MR. COOL GIRL Working on my Unlocking Pleasure workshop has me thinking about the masks we all wear… And how it’s those...
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Veronica Puryear
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Pleasure is the Purpose of Life. And most of us are just blowing right past it...
...or chasing shiny things. But real ENDURING and ECSTATIC PLEASURE requires a cultivated depth and awareness that many will never learn....
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Veronica Puryear
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From "Good Girl" to Shameless Pleasure
(Still a pretty good girl, tho.) There was a time when I was so uncomfortable being seen that I didn’t even have a profile picture on my...
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Veronica Puryear
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There's No Wrong Time To Be In a Relationship
Just remember to make space for your relationship with you! I’m a lover. A snuggler. A hopeless romantic. An insatiable flirt overflowing...
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Veronica Puryear
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Just waiting for you to stop pushing your limits with disembodied habits...and instead...
Are you pushing yourself with disembodied habits and overwork when instead you could be channeling that energy into inspired risks and...
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Veronica Puryear
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You Don't Get to be This Emotionally Intelligent or Good At Sex Without Dabbling in the Dark Arts
I said this to a lover recently because—as an Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon—I identify as a lovable menace. But seriously, the emotional...
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Veronica Puryear
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Fuck Virtue, Fuck Purity, Fuck Gatekeeping
Perfection is where pleasure goes to die. They say patience is a virtue. I say fuck virtue. Every day I think about Moms and caretakers...
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Veronica Puryear
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What I'm gonna do to you...
Do you like it when I’m in charge? When I make you stop ✋ and take a breath… 👄 … so you can pause and be fully present? I know how much...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men, Are You Stuck On Your Journey?
I see you with your books. Trying to find the perfect juice cleanse, tapping on YouTube, swallowing up every podcast you can find. And I...
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Veronica Puryear
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Self-Worth, 'Fixing', and Chasing Love...
Beloved. I can show up for you in every way. I can reassure you at every turn. I can drench you with my love so that you may drown in...
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