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Indelicate Mantra: Strong Spine and Sensually Alive (Embodiment for Life)
In 2024, I moved about 100 or so times (mild exaggeration) watched as everything I had ever done stopped working and witnessed lots of...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Morality, Purity Culture, Striving, and 'Good Girl' Programming That Blocks Relationship Healing and Spiritual Growth for Overachievers
I work with sensitive, intellectual, and powerful people who are trying to figure out what's so off about their relationships, or why,...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
The Intelligence of Obsession (Somatic & Sensual Relationship)
Embrace the RAW life force energy of your obsession, don't erase it. Yep, even the icky sticky stuff! That's GOLD waiting for you to harness and understand what it truly means to embody your full alive self in life and relationship.
Veronica Puryear
3 min read
New Era of Devotion & ALIVENESS (shaping new habits for life & love)
(From the June 6, 2025 newlsletter) "I don't want to get better" If your vision of 'healing' or repairing your relationship ...
Veronica Puryear
5 min read
Healing & Fixing & Wellness (Oh MY!)
Bones Break and So Do Hearts (From the newsletter May 12, 2025) The healing sphere is a snake eating its own tail, but who am I to step...
Veronica Puryear
4 min read


Why You're Struggling to Quiet Your Inner Critic or Just "Let Go"of Anxiety
Whether it’s healing ❤️🩹 or love ❤️🔥 the pressure you put on yourself to just feel better and more securely attached already is what...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Love is Patient, Love is Kind...And Sometimes Love Says, "Cut the Sh*t, Honey Buns."
I know you THINK you’re ensuring that you’ll always be held and understood (and one up!) by being the perfect lil angel in your...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
How I help you Unblock for Epic Love
Rumi — ‘Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.’...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


Indelicate Intimacy the Book! Practical Magic and Unconventional Insights you can take home (or download) right now!
Indelicate Intimacy reveals the secrets of secure and sexy love by helping you understand and manage the subtle energy and big feelings.
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Three Underrated Luxuries of Secure (and SEXY!) Love
Surprisingly signs that you feel happy and secure in your love and relationships.
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
How is Somatic Intimacy Emotion Coaching Different from Traditional Talk Therapy? (Anxious/Avoidant Edition...)
I copied this description (scroll down to see the answer) below from my about page explaining the difference between Somatic Therapy and...
Veronica Puryear
4 min read
Healing Trauma is Simpler Than You Think....
A truly skilled practitioner (something I believe is rare, if I'm being honest) is someone who understands you beyond a simply technical...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
"I should just let this go..." "If they could just do this ONE thing..."
The ways in which we are critical of ourselves often creates so much resistance and distortion in our minds. If you could just BE...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Where I'm hiding from deeper intimacy...
I’m guilty. Guilty of holding back and keeping my most tender self a secret. In my downturned glances and with a clench of my jaw, I stop...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


'Effortless' love is on the other side of a skill level and open heart that you don't yet have.
This is for the guy having a tantrum in my virtual office saying… “She should just know! I shouldn’t have to tell her!” …it’s also for...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


No, you’re not a People Pleaser
I can’t take another social media post about people pleasing. Why? First, why does everything need an official-ish sounding and degrading...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Sometimes That Confused Feeling Is You Confronting a Growing Edge
The energy of this week has been funky. I’ve seen it on others and also felt it myself. Yet, somehow I just know the challenge is a sign...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
What is Intimacy Anyway?
Intimacy is what happens between the lines.... It is a wordless but felt sense of closeness It is a vibe It is energy It is subtext It is...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
One Year of Epic Growth and the Foundation It is Built On
One year. Celebrating milestones is not a strong suit of mine. I don’t like planning for them and I don’t know how to ask to be...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Everything I say here about leadership in love….It is also true for sex.
Set aside your perceptions of ‘Top’ and ‘Bottom’ for a moment. Forget about gender identities and ideas about who gives and who receives....
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
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