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Indelicate Mantra: Strong Spine and Sensually Alive (Embodiment for Life)
In 2024, I moved about 100 or so times (mild exaggeration) watched as everything I had ever done stopped working and witnessed lots of...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Morality, Purity Culture, Striving, and 'Good Girl' Programming That Blocks Relationship Healing and Spiritual Growth for Overachievers
I work with sensitive, intellectual, and powerful people who are trying to figure out what's so off about their relationships, or why,...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
The Intelligence of Obsession (Somatic & Sensual Relationship)
Embrace the RAW life force energy of your obsession, don't erase it. Yep, even the icky sticky stuff! That's GOLD waiting for you to harness and understand what it truly means to embody your full alive self in life and relationship.
Veronica Puryear
3 min read
New Era of Devotion & ALIVENESS (shaping new habits for life & love)
(From the June 6, 2025 newlsletter) "I don't want to get better" If your vision of 'healing' or repairing your relationship ...
Veronica Puryear
5 min read
Healing & Fixing & Wellness (Oh MY!)
Bones Break and So Do Hearts (From the newsletter May 12, 2025) The healing sphere is a snake eating its own tail, but who am I to step...
Veronica Puryear
4 min read


Why You're Struggling to Quiet Your Inner Critic or Just "Let Go"of Anxiety
Whether it’s healing ❤️🩹 or love ❤️🔥 the pressure you put on yourself to just feel better and more securely attached already is what...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


Nervous System Healing for Relationship: Do You Need More Safety or do You Need to Feel More ALIVE?
Yes, Embodied SAFETY is so important for a healing Nervous System and for fostering healthy Attachment. But what does safety actually...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


Ladies, Femmes, and Sensitive Gems...Is Your Partner Tuning You Out No Matter How Much You Talk About Your Needs and Feelings?
Why your relationship talks are falling flat or getting tuned out.
Veronica Puryear
2 min read


Why Your Relationship Anxiety Isn't Getting Better
Don't see the video above? Try this link: https://youtu.be/uzTAcZ6pqDQ What I’ve noticed in folks who are having pervasive relationship...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read


Are you leaning forward in Love? Always the first to text and fill the silence?
Always the first to text in relationships? Wonder why others don't take more initiative?
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Love is Patient, Love is Kind...And Sometimes Love Says, "Cut the Sh*t, Honey Buns."
I know you THINK you’re ensuring that you’ll always be held and understood (and one up!) by being the perfect lil angel in your...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


When Traditional therapy Isn't Working (Watch me get fired up about this one!)
Somatic Intimacy Coaching is like this: 1. We’ll chat about what juicy, connected intimacy would feel like for you and what kinds of...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
How I help you Unblock for Epic Love
Rumi — ‘Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.’...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


A sneaky trick of guilt and shame in relationship (and subconscious ways we blame others for our discomfort)
Do you find yourself getting defensive when you do things for yourself or take up space in your relationship? Do you imagine your partner...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read


Indelicate Intimacy the Book! Practical Magic and Unconventional Insights you can take home (or download) right now!
Indelicate Intimacy reveals the secrets of secure and sexy love by helping you understand and manage the subtle energy and big feelings.
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Three Underrated Luxuries of Secure (and SEXY!) Love
Surprisingly signs that you feel happy and secure in your love and relationships.
Veronica Puryear
2 min read


Mismatched Desire: When one partner wants sex and the other does not (and the joyful path back to connection...)
What do you do when one person says, "I want connection first," and the other insists, "I have to be physical to feel close!"
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
How is Somatic Intimacy Emotion Coaching Different from Traditional Talk Therapy? (Anxious/Avoidant Edition...)
I copied this description (scroll down to see the answer) below from my about page explaining the difference between Somatic Therapy and...
Veronica Puryear
4 min read
Feeling your resistance is the answer, hun.
What if the frustration, relationship anxiety, disappointment, ick, trigger, shut down, blah.... Is not a setback in your healing or...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
What Happens in a Session?
First...Did you see this post on instagram? These memes say....well...a lot about me. What happens in a session?...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
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