In Defense of Non-Linear Relationships
If you are a person who grows, you will change. If you are alive on this planet, on this astral plane....you will have ruptures like...
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Veronica Puryear
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Why Men Shut Down.
Feeling exhausted by the not-so-subtle nitpicking of your partner? Or maybe you're just so worn out from having to guess what people want...
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Veronica Puryear
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Experiential Somatic Intimacy Coaching is different from traditional therapy in three key ways
As a former appointee of a Presidential Administration, I'm no stranger to the burnout and disconnection that comes from our fast-paced...
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Veronica Puryear
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Everybody's A Little Kinky (So why does it feel like a dirty secret?)
I don’t talk about this on social media often (hello, highly public and censored platforms!) but I know it’s the reason so many of you...
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Veronica Puryear
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Everything About You Makes Perfect Sense, My Darling
Everything about you makes perfect sense because of.... The way your cells were formed in your mother's womb... The nervous system you...
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Veronica Puryear
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Healing the Subconscious
I've been doing a lot of work with my subconscious lately. I'm healing old wounds so I can welcome in new gifts. Based on crying volume...
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Veronica Puryear
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Five Things I Didn't Realize Were Codependent
If you grew up managing a parent’s mood or behaviors (or were raised by someone with that trauma)… You might have learned that: 👎it’s...
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Veronica Puryear
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Why do I feel bad about wanting attention?!
#1 It is human nature to desire attention and for many people there is no such thing as too much. BUT! You feel shame about wanting...
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Veronica Puryear
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Giving critiques can often feel more familiar and easy than giving love
Sometimes judgement feels like the only safe way to say, “I care.” Being sincere is hard and vulnerable. Intimacy, true vulnerable...
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Veronica Puryear
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Remember that everyone gets nervous
Before you unravel… Remember that everyone gets nervous. I see so many clients—and my own lovers—get so lost in their own heads. You...
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Veronica Puryear
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Everything I say here about leadership in love….It is also true for sex.
Set aside your perceptions of ‘Top’ and ‘Bottom’ for a moment. Forget about gender identities and ideas about who gives and who receives....
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Veronica Puryear
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I’ve always been wild.
But the wild parts haven’t always been so…on the surface. You see, I was not born a sex coach. I did not walk out of the ocean like...
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Veronica Puryear
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I Lost The Ability To Orgasm
Or rather, I misplaced it. Have you seen the post that says, "people who cum from penetrative sex, what's it like to be God's favorite?"...
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Veronica Puryear
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The Masks We Wear and How They Block Our Pleasure
WELL IF IT ISN’T MR. COOL GIRL Working on my Unlocking Pleasure workshop has me thinking about the masks we all wear… And how it’s those...
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Veronica Puryear
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You Are So Lovable...That People have Tried Anyway Despite Their Own Limitations
REFRAME: you are not a failure because unavailable people did not choose you. You are, in fact, so lovable that they simply had to give...
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Veronica Puryear
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Too Much Self Reliance Blocks Intimacy
Anybody else self-reliant to a fault? I’ve been having a rough day today and my avoidant tendencies tell me that nobody wants to hear...
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Veronica Puryear
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Just waiting for you to stop pushing your limits with disembodied habits...and instead...
Are you pushing yourself with disembodied habits and overwork when instead you could be channeling that energy into inspired risks and...
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Veronica Puryear
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You Don't Get to be This Emotionally Intelligent or Good At Sex Without Dabbling in the Dark Arts
I said this to a lover recently because—as an Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon—I identify as a lovable menace. But seriously, the emotional...
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Veronica Puryear
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To be seen is erotic.
To be seen is erotic. To know that you are seen for your whole self as you really are. To be radically witnessed in your grace, skills,...
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Veronica Puryear
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So many masculine people worry that their energy is harmful
Regardless of your socialized or lived gender experience, you have likely internalized the idea that men are dangerous. That their sexual...
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