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Ladies, Femmes, and Sensitive Gems...Is Your Partner Tuning You Out No Matter How Much You Talk About Your Needs and Feelings?
Why your relationship talks are falling flat or getting tuned out.
Veronica Puryear
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A sneaky trick of guilt and shame in relationship (and subconscious ways we blame others for our discomfort)
Do you find yourself getting defensive when you do things for yourself or take up space in your relationship? Do you imagine your partner...
Veronica Puryear
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Bratty Kid Behavior and How to Deal (whether it’s your actual kids or an inner child…)
Take it from a somatic intimacy coach who meets the inner children of all of my sweet, perfectionist, hardworking, magical clients every...
Veronica Puryear
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Everything About You Makes Perfect Sense, My Darling
Everything about you makes perfect sense because of.... The way your cells were formed in your mother's womb... The nervous system you...
Veronica Puryear
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If You Get Triggered By Their Venting Then You Might Actually Be The One With The Problem
Did you catch my reel about getting triggered? Maybe it’s actually pretty hard for you to listen without… ⛈ taking something personally ⛈...
Veronica Puryear
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Giving critiques can often feel more familiar and easy than giving love
Sometimes judgement feels like the only safe way to say, “I care.” Being sincere is hard and vulnerable. Intimacy, true vulnerable...
Veronica Puryear
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Too Much Self Reliance Blocks Intimacy
Anybody else self-reliant to a fault? I’ve been having a rough day today and my avoidant tendencies tell me that nobody wants to hear...
Veronica Puryear
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We Teach People How To Love Us...Make sure you're teaching the right things...
All your life you’ve been teaching people how to love you…and they are watching VERY closely. They see the things that light you up… They...
Veronica Puryear
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"You're The Sex Mother I Never Had"
One of my clients called me this. The Sx Mother She Never Had. And it’s not just about the birds and the bees 🐝… I’m teaching people...
Veronica Puryear
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When someone tells you that they're triggered, that's a vulnerable invitation to love them more
When someone tells you that they're triggered, they are essentially giving you the cheat codes on how to love them. A trigger is...
Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
Veronica Puryear
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What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist…
What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist… (The following is said with love) “I'm deeply hurt and don't yet have the words to...
Veronica Puryear
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The work that I do defies explanation.
The work that I do as an intimacy coach and HOW I do it defies explanation. To attempt to reduce it down to a particular tool or method...
Veronica Puryear
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Where Do You Resist Sweetness In Your Life?
*Written on the day of the Lion's Gate Portal* Born 8/8/1934 — the first person to meet me earth-side. I fought with her the way that...
Veronica Puryear
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What does it mean to 'repair' in relationships?
Repair is how we work through and heal conflict. It is both a powerful experience and an ongoing one. How do you own your role in the...
Veronica Puryear
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