What if the frustration, relationship anxiety, disappointment, ick, trigger, shut down, blah.... Is not a setback in your healing or...

This is for the guy having a tantrum in my virtual office saying… “She should just know! I shouldn’t have to tell her!” …it’s also for...

The energy of this week has been funky. I’ve seen it on others and also felt it myself. Yet, somehow I just know the challenge is a sign...

Your Reminder to Take Exquisite Care of Yourself... Intimacy means that our energy may become scattered and spread out amongst our loved...

Everything about you makes perfect sense because of.... The way your cells were formed in your mother's womb... The nervous system you...

This just needs to be said. Love is not a thing you "get" from someone. Are you treating Love as something transactional or like a...

I see you with your books. Trying to find the perfect juice cleanse, tapping on YouTube, swallowing up every podcast you can find. And I...

Or rather, I misplaced it. Have you seen the post that says, "people who cum from penetrative sex, what's it like to be God's favorite?"...

WELL IF IT ISN’T MR. COOL GIRL Working on my Unlocking Pleasure workshop has me thinking about the masks we all wear… And how it’s those...

(That Doesn't Mean you Have to Be Together Now or Forever) I hear this a lot, and I’ve experienced it myself. Trust me, because I only...

REFRAME: you are not a failure because unavailable people did not choose you. You are, in fact, so lovable that they simply had to give...

Just remember to make space for your relationship with you! I’m a lover. A snuggler. A hopeless romantic. An insatiable flirt overflowing...

The more I learn about love and the more I experience the disappointment that comes along with high expectations, the more I feel a sense...

This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...

Beloved. I can show up for you in every way. I can reassure you at every turn. I can drench you with my love so that you may drown in...

Over the last few months you've heard me say that I live an intentionally expansive, pleasure-filled existence. I've also openly shared...

Ladies, you’ve been lied to. . Led to believe that you are powerless in relationships. . You know the story. . You’re lapping up crumbs...

Am I “ready” to get my heart crushed again? To have rote, dull chats with 2-dimensional app dwellers? No. Am I ‘open’ to occasional...

Aquarius Blue Moon 🌝 . Between this Aquarius full moon and the last one in July I’ve trudged through the bookends of heartbreak—familiar...

I keep trying to understand why I feel so sad this week . And then I remember the humanitarian crises that are unfolding all around us. ....