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Morality, Purity Culture, Striving, and 'Good Girl' Programming That Blocks Relationship Healing and Spiritual Growth for Overachievers
I work with sensitive, intellectual, and powerful people who are trying to figure out what's so off about their relationships, or why,...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
The Intelligence of Obsession (Somatic & Sensual Relationship)
Embrace the RAW life force energy of your obsession, don't erase it. Yep, even the icky sticky stuff! That's GOLD waiting for you to harness and understand what it truly means to embody your full alive self in life and relationship.
Veronica Puryear
3 min read
New Era of Devotion & ALIVENESS (shaping new habits for life & love)
(From the June 6, 2025 newlsletter) "I don't want to get better" If your vision of 'healing' or repairing your relationship ...
Veronica Puryear
5 min read
Healing & Fixing & Wellness (Oh MY!)
Bones Break and So Do Hearts (From the newsletter May 12, 2025) The healing sphere is a snake eating its own tail, but who am I to step...
Veronica Puryear
4 min read


Why You're Struggling to Quiet Your Inner Critic or Just "Let Go"of Anxiety
Whether it’s healing ❤️🩹 or love ❤️🔥 the pressure you put on yourself to just feel better and more securely attached already is what...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


Why Your Relationship Anxiety Isn't Getting Better
Don't see the video above? Try this link: https://youtu.be/uzTAcZ6pqDQ What I’ve noticed in folks who are having pervasive relationship...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Love is Patient, Love is Kind...And Sometimes Love Says, "Cut the Sh*t, Honey Buns."
I know you THINK you’re ensuring that you’ll always be held and understood (and one up!) by being the perfect lil angel in your...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
How I help you Unblock for Epic Love
Rumi — ‘Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.’...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


Indelicate Intimacy the Book! Practical Magic and Unconventional Insights you can take home (or download) right now!
Indelicate Intimacy reveals the secrets of secure and sexy love by helping you understand and manage the subtle energy and big feelings.
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Three Underrated Luxuries of Secure (and SEXY!) Love
Surprisingly signs that you feel happy and secure in your love and relationships.
Veronica Puryear
2 min read


Bratty Kid Behavior and How to Deal (whether it’s your actual kids or an inner child…)
Take it from a somatic intimacy coach who meets the inner children of all of my sweet, perfectionist, hardworking, magical clients every...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Healing Trauma is Simpler Than You Think....
A truly skilled practitioner (something I believe is rare, if I'm being honest) is someone who understands you beyond a simply technical...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
"I should just let this go..." "If they could just do this ONE thing..."
The ways in which we are critical of ourselves often creates so much resistance and distortion in our minds. If you could just BE...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Where I'm hiding from deeper intimacy...
I’m guilty. Guilty of holding back and keeping my most tender self a secret. In my downturned glances and with a clench of my jaw, I stop...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
"I feel more at peace than I ever have"
These are notes from a client who was once a VERY anxious person. "I feel so much more powerful and in my body. I feel grateful for...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Your anxiety, patterns, and block are not who YOU are.
The PART of you that: Shuts down when you feel discouraged Spirals when your partner feels far away Is endlessly critical of yourself and...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read


No, you’re not a People Pleaser
I can’t take another social media post about people pleasing. Why? First, why does everything need an official-ish sounding and degrading...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Fluidity as Philosophy...The Ethos of Indelicate
Good luck trying to get me to make you feel wrong about something because I mostly believe that right and wrong are simply not a thing....
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
Sometimes That Confused Feeling Is You Confronting a Growing Edge
The energy of this week has been funky. I’ve seen it on others and also felt it myself. Yet, somehow I just know the challenge is a sign...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
The Common Understanding of Settling is a Hot Mess
I’m regularly annoyed and sometimes even disturbed to see relationship experts and therapists posting content that recommends settling....
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
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