You Don't Get to be This Emotionally Intelligent or Good At Sex Without Dabbling in the Dark Arts
To be seen is erotic.
So many masculine people worry that their energy is harmful
Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
Fuck Virtue, Fuck Purity, Fuck Gatekeeping
People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy....
What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist…
Your needs and desires are not a problem: But How You Show Up Matters
Men, Stop Wasting Time Trying to Heal Alone
Self-Worth, 'Fixing', and Chasing Love...
Men Deserve Tenderness, Consent, and Boundaries Too
I Create My Own Pleasure
Nobody is "Awakened" "Conscious" "Secure" all of the time
The Way That Healers Show Up with People with Stigmatized Conditions Matters
Many Sexual Challenges Are Rooted in Shame
There is No Right Thing To Do: Only What Feels Right
Healing Work Can Trigger Perfectionism