You Don't Get to be This Emotionally Intelligent or Good At Sex Without Dabbling in the Dark Arts
I said this to a lover recently because—as an Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon—I identify as a lovable menace. But seriously, the emotional...
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Veronica Puryear
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To be seen is erotic.
To be seen is erotic. To know that you are seen for your whole self as you really are. To be radically witnessed in your grace, skills,...
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Veronica Puryear
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So many masculine people worry that their energy is harmful
Regardless of your socialized or lived gender experience, you have likely internalized the idea that men are dangerous. That their sexual...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
Many people experience a big awakening in the first couple of sessions with me. When they start identifying what they want, practicing...
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Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
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Veronica Puryear
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Fuck Virtue, Fuck Purity, Fuck Gatekeeping
Perfection is where pleasure goes to die. They say patience is a virtue. I say fuck virtue. Every day I think about Moms and caretakers...
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Veronica Puryear
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Anxiety happens....
Before you unravel… Remember that everyone gets nervous. I see so many clients—and my own lovers—get so lost in their own heads. You...
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Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
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Veronica Puryear
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Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy....
Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy? https://www.instagram.com/p/CbF8johp1h9/ Or are they: 💔 Used to getting shot down 💔 Terrified...
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Veronica Puryear
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What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist…
What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist… (The following is said with love) “I'm deeply hurt and don't yet have the words to...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your needs and desires are not a problem: But How You Show Up Matters
Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men, Stop Wasting Time Trying to Heal Alone
Intimacy is a shared experience. Don’t wait until you’re on your first date with someone new to remember that rush (and possible panic)....
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Veronica Puryear
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Self-Worth, 'Fixing', and Chasing Love...
Beloved. I can show up for you in every way. I can reassure you at every turn. I can drench you with my love so that you may drown in...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men Deserve Tenderness, Consent, and Boundaries Too
Do you know how to seduce a man? How to let it take all day? How to build a connection? To ask for permission to take the friendly banter...
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Veronica Puryear
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I Create My Own Pleasure
Make it your Mantra Often times when I ask my clients who are socialized as women what turns them on they say, “I don’t know.” Just like...
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Veronica Puryear
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Nobody is "Awakened" "Conscious" "Secure" all of the time
“…looking for a Conscious Man…” ….”when you find an Awakened Woman…” Do phrases like this trigger the f*ck out of anybody else? . I...
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Veronica Puryear
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The Way That Healers Show Up with People with Stigmatized Conditions Matters
Something I hear a lot is that folks go to healthcare providers for support around their STI symptoms/diagnosis and end up feeling...
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Veronica Puryear
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Many Sexual Challenges Are Rooted in Shame
Fear of being too much...not enough...worry that you'll let someone down... You can transmute this energy into magic. A lot of my DMs...
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Veronica Puryear
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There is No Right Thing To Do: Only What Feels Right
There’s a lot of advice and ‘shoulds’ out there. The choices that you make matter, but they are just that—your choices. You could decide...
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Healing Work Can Trigger Perfectionism
I’m triggered. Sometimes in my education around relationships or mindfulness I can see where I ‘went wrong’ in a relationship. Or maybe I...
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