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I Create My Own Pleasure
Make it your Mantra Often times when I ask my clients who are socialized as women what turns them on they say, “I don’t know.” Just like...
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Ladies, You've Been Lied To
Ladies, you’ve been lied to. . Led to believe that you are powerless in relationships. . You know the story. . You’re lapping up crumbs...
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When You're 'Not Ready' for Dating
Am I “ready” to get my heart crushed again? To have rote, dull chats with 2-dimensional app dwellers? No. Am I ‘open’ to occasional...
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Nobody is "Awakened" "Conscious" "Secure" all of the time
“…looking for a Conscious Man…” ….”when you find an Awakened Woman…” Do phrases like this trigger the f*ck out of anybody else? . I...
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How to Keep Things Casual?
From my XO Afterglow Instagram takeover on 11/17/2021 Question: [How do you] stay grounded/realistic when you just want to hook up with...
Veronica Puryear
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The Way That Healers Show Up with People with Stigmatized Conditions Matters
Something I hear a lot is that folks go to healthcare providers for support around their STI symptoms/diagnosis and end up feeling...
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I Want to be Loved; Not to Perform
I want to explore everything there is to know about sex... AND I want to be loved as I am, in my simplest, most raw form without...
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Many Sexual Challenges Are Rooted in Shame
Fear of being too much...not enough...worry that you'll let someone down... You can transmute this energy into magic. A lot of my DMs...
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Anywhere You Are is Magic
Aquarius Blue Moon 🌝 . Between this Aquarius full moon and the last one in July I’ve trudged through the bookends of heartbreak—familiar...
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For All of the Logic....My Feelings Still Are Louder
I keep trying to understand why I feel so sad this week . And then I remember the humanitarian crises that are unfolding all around us. ....
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You Don't Need to Be Single To Find Yourself
...and you don't need to be in a relationship to find love. It seems like people think that intimacy, healing, and happiness are...
Veronica Puryear
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Your Sexuality is For You
You’re feeling light and alive in your body…you’re glowing even… The sun is filling you with it’s warmth and a gentle breeze is tickling...
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Attention is the Beginning of Devotion
-Mary Oliver My darling. Where is your focus? What obsessions or limitations are creating your reality? Where are you lit up and blazing...
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Where Do You Resist Sweetness In Your Life?
*Written on the day of the Lion's Gate Portal* Born 8/8/1934 — the first person to meet me earth-side. I fought with her the way that...
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How A Tantrum Can Soothe Your System
“Do you want to throw a tantrum?” My intuitive coach asked me today as I was welling up with frustration. I was trying to breathe and...
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What Is A Trigger?
I talk about triggers a lot. There are a lot of ways to be triggered. A trigger is a stimulus like an event, smell, place, phrase, etc...
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Healing the Subconscious
I've been doing a lot of work with my subconscious lately. I'm healing old wounds so I can welcome in new gifts. Based on crying volume...
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There is No Right Thing To Do: Only What Feels Right
There’s a lot of advice and ‘shoulds’ out there. The choices that you make matter, but they are just that—your choices. You could decide...
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Healing Work Can Trigger Perfectionism
I’m triggered. Sometimes in my education around relationships or mindfulness I can see where I ‘went wrong’ in a relationship. Or maybe I...
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What does it mean to 'repair' in relationships?
Repair is how we work through and heal conflict. It is both a powerful experience and an ongoing one. How do you own your role in the...
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