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I Lost The Ability To Orgasm
Or rather, I misplaced it. Have you seen the post that says, "people who cum from penetrative sex, what's it like to be God's favorite?"...
Veronica Puryear
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The Person Who is Blowing Your Mind is here to Show You What is Possible
(That Doesn't Mean you Have to Be Together Now or Forever) I hear this a lot, and I’ve experienced it myself. Trust me, because I only...
Veronica Puryear
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Reason #1 Your Sex, Relationships, Pleasure Aren't Working?
You're Not Clear On What You Want Has anyone ever asked you what you want and you just kind froze? Maybe because nobody has ever asked...
Veronica Puryear
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I am a healer who deals in the unseen....
I am a healer who deals in the unseen. A doula who can safely guide younger selves and unspoken shadows into the open where they can be...
Veronica Puryear
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Having Boundaries has nothing to do with being rigid
Having Boundaries has nothing to do with being rigid. I am probably way more boundaried than your average person but I am also VERY...
Veronica Puryear
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You Are So Lovable...That People have Tried Anyway Despite Their Own Limitations
REFRAME: you are not a failure because unavailable people did not choose you. You are, in fact, so lovable that they simply had to give...
Veronica Puryear
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Erotic Energy Is Life Force Energy
Everything is Erotic because Erotic Energy is LIFE FORCE ENERGY. Which also means that everything is sex. You’re making love to the world...
Veronica Puryear
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There's No Wrong Time To Be In a Relationship
Just remember to make space for your relationship with you! I’m a lover. A snuggler. A hopeless romantic. An insatiable flirt overflowing...
Veronica Puryear
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Don't Logic Yourself Out of Love
The more I learn about love and the more I experience the disappointment that comes along with high expectations, the more I feel a sense...
Veronica Puryear
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We Teach People How To Love Us...Make sure you're teaching the right things...
All your life you’ve been teaching people how to love you…and they are watching VERY closely. They see the things that light you up… They...
Veronica Puryear
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Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy are a guarantee of anything
Words and labels are meaningless without explicit and ongoing agreement between you and your partner(s). No one relationship dynamic is...
Veronica Puryear
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Relationships do not have to be fair
Do you keep track of who did the last nice thing? Do you wait for someone else to show affection before expressing your feelings? Are you...
Veronica Puryear
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Celebrate men for following their integrity even if their plans don't include you
My date left earlier than expected last night to take care of something in his life. Something important. I was touched by the tenderness...
Veronica Puryear
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When someone tells you that they're triggered, that's a vulnerable invitation to love them more
When someone tells you that they're triggered, they are essentially giving you the cheat codes on how to love them. A trigger is...
Veronica Puryear
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Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
Many people experience a big awakening in the first couple of sessions with me. When they start identifying what they want, practicing...
Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
Veronica Puryear
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Be Direct About Your Desires So People Can Meet You Where You're At
If you’re not being direct about what you want and what you’re available for, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment and probably...
Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
Veronica Puryear
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It can be even more vulnerable to receive than it is to give...
“I just like to give pleasure” I’m sure you do love to give, but maybe you’re avoiding something in the process. Surrendering to pleasure...
Veronica Puryear
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You cannot accurately calibrate intimacy when you're overthinking
Ask yourself, “am I thinking for two?” You can (and I hope you do) have intimacy with yourself by listening to your body, honing your...
Veronica Puryear
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