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"I just Need to Find The Right Partner, Then I'll be Happy and Everything Will Work Out"
I hear this AND OTHER SUCH EXCUSES constantly. "When the timing is right,"..."When the right match finally comes along,"...."When I find...
Veronica Puryear
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If You Get Triggered By Their Venting Then You Might Actually Be The One With The Problem
Did you catch my reel about getting triggered? Maybe it’s actually pretty hard for you to listen without… ⛈ taking something personally ⛈...
Veronica Puryear
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Why do I feel bad about wanting attention?!
#1 It is human nature to desire attention and for many people there is no such thing as too much. BUT! You feel shame about wanting...
Veronica Puryear
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Men, now is not the time to overcorrect.
Men and people who are raising young men. Toxic shame which leads to unhealthy masculinity which leads to disassociation, trauma,...
Veronica Puryear
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Giving critiques can often feel more familiar and easy than giving love
Sometimes judgement feels like the only safe way to say, “I care.” Being sincere is hard and vulnerable. Intimacy, true vulnerable...
Veronica Puryear
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Remember that everyone gets nervous
Before you unravel… Remember that everyone gets nervous. I see so many clients—and my own lovers—get so lost in their own heads. You...
Veronica Puryear
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Self Sacrifice is not the thing that makes you a great partner...
Your worth is not in the things that you “do” for people, but in who you are to them by simply being your most authentic and loving self....
Veronica Puryear
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We Are Not Meant to Heal Alone
I see you with your books. Trying to find the perfect juice cleanse, tapping on YouTube, swallowing up every podcast you can find. And I...
Veronica Puryear
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I Lost The Ability To Orgasm
Or rather, I misplaced it. Have you seen the post that says, "people who cum from penetrative sex, what's it like to be God's favorite?"...
Veronica Puryear
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The Masks We Wear and How They Block Our Pleasure
WELL IF IT ISN’T MR. COOL GIRL Working on my Unlocking Pleasure workshop has me thinking about the masks we all wear… And how it’s those...
Veronica Puryear
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To be in your Sensuality and Flow...You Must Let Go...and for both you Need Safety
Want to be in your pleasure? Radiant? Unbothered? Jiggling down the street, flauntin’ it if ya got it? (You know you got it 💃🏻) First...
Veronica Puryear
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Your liberation is contagious
Want to know a secret? Your liberation is contagious. Whenever I get hung up on (heh) whether I’m delivering results or offering enough...
Veronica Puryear
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Just waiting for you to stop pushing your limits with disembodied habits...and instead...
Are you pushing yourself with disembodied habits and overwork when instead you could be channeling that energy into inspired risks and...
Veronica Puryear
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In What Adorably Creative Way Will you Beat Yourself Up Today?
“Nobody appreciates me” “I’m not allowed to feel sad because someone else has a harder time than me” “I give and give and give and people...
Veronica Puryear
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Anxiety happens....
Before you unravel… Remember that everyone gets nervous. I see so many clients—and my own lovers—get so lost in their own heads. You...
Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
Veronica Puryear
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People of all genders experience relationship anxiety
People read text messages over and over. People lay awake in bed replaying the thing they did or didn’t do. People freeze up and can’t...
Veronica Puryear
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You’re not broken.
You can have healthy relationships of all kinds. I see you....over-identifying with a label, an attachment style, or a diagnosis. You...
Veronica Puryear
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Going with the flow is not the favor you think it is.
You want to be a classy dude. A feminist. You want to respect her space and to never "assume" anything physical or romantic will happen....
Veronica Puryear
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Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy....
Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy? https://www.instagram.com/p/CbF8johp1h9/ Or are they: 💔 Used to getting shot down 💔 Terrified...
Veronica Puryear
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