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Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy are a guarantee of anything
Words and labels are meaningless without explicit and ongoing agreement between you and your partner(s). No one relationship dynamic is...
Veronica Puryear
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Celebrate men for following their integrity even if their plans don't include you
My date left earlier than expected last night to take care of something in his life. Something important. I was touched by the tenderness...
Veronica Puryear
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When someone tells you that they're triggered, that's a vulnerable invitation to love them more
When someone tells you that they're triggered, they are essentially giving you the cheat codes on how to love them. A trigger is...
Veronica Puryear
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Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
Many people experience a big awakening in the first couple of sessions with me. When they start identifying what they want, practicing...
Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
Veronica Puryear
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What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist…
What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist… (The following is said with love) “I'm deeply hurt and don't yet have the words to...
Veronica Puryear
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Your needs and desires are not a problem: But How You Show Up Matters
Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...
Veronica Puryear
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What My Clients Say is Different About Intimacy Coaching....
How is Somatic Relationship Coaching with me different from other healing modalities you have tried when it comes to.... Relationship...
Veronica Puryear
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Men Deserve Tenderness, Consent, and Boundaries Too
Do you know how to seduce a man? How to let it take all day? How to build a connection? To ask for permission to take the friendly banter...
Veronica Puryear
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Many Sexual Challenges Are Rooted in Shame
Fear of being too much...not enough...worry that you'll let someone down... You can transmute this energy into magic. A lot of my DMs...
Veronica Puryear
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You Don't Need to Be Single To Find Yourself
...and you don't need to be in a relationship to find love. It seems like people think that intimacy, healing, and happiness are...
Veronica Puryear
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What Is A Trigger?
I talk about triggers a lot. There are a lot of ways to be triggered. A trigger is a stimulus like an event, smell, place, phrase, etc...
Veronica Puryear
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What does it mean to 'repair' in relationships?
Repair is how we work through and heal conflict. It is both a powerful experience and an ongoing one. How do you own your role in the...
Veronica Puryear
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Seek the middle, not the opposite of your love relationship patterns
I have a subconscious belief that love should be hard. That I have to earn it through struggle, proving myself, and sticking around no...
Veronica Puryear
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Are you living the up to your own standards when it comes to respecting boundaries?
How are you modeling the love you wish to receive? If it feels scary to assert boundaries and to communicate directly…you’re not wrong....
Veronica Puryear
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