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What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist…
What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist… (The following is said with love) “I'm deeply hurt and don't yet have the words to...
Veronica Puryear
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Your needs and desires are not a problem: But How You Show Up Matters
Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...
Veronica Puryear
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Men, Stop Wasting Time Trying to Heal Alone
Intimacy is a shared experience. Don’t wait until you’re on your first date with someone new to remember that rush (and possible panic)....
Veronica Puryear
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Self-Worth, 'Fixing', and Chasing Love...
Beloved. I can show up for you in every way. I can reassure you at every turn. I can drench you with my love so that you may drown in...
Veronica Puryear
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Men Deserve Tenderness, Consent, and Boundaries Too
Do you know how to seduce a man? How to let it take all day? How to build a connection? To ask for permission to take the friendly banter...
Veronica Puryear
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I Create My Own Pleasure
Make it your Mantra Often times when I ask my clients who are socialized as women what turns them on they say, “I don’t know.” Just like...
Veronica Puryear
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Nobody is "Awakened" "Conscious" "Secure" all of the time
“…looking for a Conscious Man…” ….”when you find an Awakened Woman…” Do phrases like this trigger the f*ck out of anybody else? . I...
Veronica Puryear
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The Way That Healers Show Up with People with Stigmatized Conditions Matters
Something I hear a lot is that folks go to healthcare providers for support around their STI symptoms/diagnosis and end up feeling...
Veronica Puryear
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Many Sexual Challenges Are Rooted in Shame
Fear of being too much...not enough...worry that you'll let someone down... You can transmute this energy into magic. A lot of my DMs...
Veronica Puryear
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There is No Right Thing To Do: Only What Feels Right
There’s a lot of advice and ‘shoulds’ out there. The choices that you make matter, but they are just that—your choices. You could decide...
Veronica Puryear
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Healing Work Can Trigger Perfectionism
I’m triggered. Sometimes in my education around relationships or mindfulness I can see where I ‘went wrong’ in a relationship. Or maybe I...
Veronica Puryear
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