You want to be a classy dude. A feminist. You want to respect her space and to never "assume" anything physical or romantic will happen....

What I really hear when you call someone a narcissist… (The following is said with love) “I'm deeply hurt and don't yet have the words to...

Trying to do other people's work for them Walking on eggshells Jumping into problem solving Never letting anyone see me sweat or make...

Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...

Beloved. I can show up for you in every way. I can reassure you at every turn. I can drench you with my love so that you may drown in...

Do you know how to seduce a man? How to let it take all day? How to build a connection? To ask for permission to take the friendly banter...

He wouldn’t let me pull his splinter. Actually, he often wouldn’t let me help him or offer him comfort at all. This was a somewhat noble...

From my XO Afterglow Instagram takeover on 11/17/2021 Question: [How do you] stay grounded/realistic when you just want to hook up with...

There’s a lot of advice and ‘shoulds’ out there. The choices that you make matter, but they are just that—your choices. You could decide...

How are you modeling the love you wish to receive? If it feels scary to assert boundaries and to communicate directly…you’re not wrong....