Updated: Mar 24, 2022
Want to be in your flow? Radiant? Unbothered? Jiggling down the street, flauntin’ it if ya got it?
(You know you got it 💃🏻)
First you need to feel safe. I mean…right? Sounds kinda obvious, maybe? True things often do.
But it’s worth unpacking. To really let go, you have to know in your body, heart, mind, soul, aura that you are safe to express yourself, that you are not under threat, and that you are loved.
This is true whether it’s walking down the street or in the embrace of your lover.
The safety must first come from you and part of how you create this safety is by creating structure.
Simple example: if you just want to vibe, follow your inspiration, and pick up/put down whatever tasks at your leisure, you probably want to set a timer or alarm for when it’s time to transition to other things (like taking dinner out of the oven or picking up your kids).
Think about this like the watched pot that never boils. Or how hard it can be to relax when you’re not sure how much time you have before meeting someone. Let structure be your guide. Trust it and let it hold you.
Similarly for sensuality, you must create spaces that are soft, juicy, and sacred. You must also choose partners who respect your need for safety a
nd work with you to enhance and create that kind of environment.
This is how we access everything from small moment
s of joy to the most intense org*smic states.
Come to a session with me to learn more about how you can
lovingly hold yourself. I will work with you to create a container where you can flourish and draw out your sensual flow. 💋