The Intelligence of Obsession (Somatic & Sensual Relationship)

You KNOW you want more and to me, that's PERFECT.

An unfortunate quirk of this posture, however, of ALWAYS WANTING, is not being able to fully hold your own intensity, never mind getting comfortable, settled, satisfied, and allll the sticky shame that follows this natural tension. This can lead to fogginess, lack of drive and purpose, messy communication in your relationships, triggered attachment wounds, depression, anxiety, and even chronic pain.

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You don't have to settle for mediocrity or shove down your cravings or compulsive fears and behaviors (anxiety is often desire in disguise anyway).

Rather, you need to take obsession all the way on. But first, understand this:

Without realizing it, most of what is available out there is teaching you to reign yourself in, to get smaller, to have more 'appropriate' wants and needs. Even the flashy, fun stuff is calcifying every cell in your body that feels 'not good enough'.

The messages are everywhere...

Get more evolved! Master this ONE hot relationship trick!

Meditate and shake your body until the obsession subsides!

Control yourself with wellness! Don't get attached or go overboard in love! 

Be grateful for what you have (OR ELSE!)

Even if the teaching itself is rather expansive and grants tons of permission, you might still find yourself shrinking to 'do it right' or make wild attempts at 'taking up space' and living 'authentically' that are actually just acting out or getting overly attached to a particular performance of identity (which loops you back to sneaky under-the-radar feelings of confusion, judgement, and rejection). 

For what it's worth, getting rigidly committed to a practice or acting out in the name of self-expression can be an important rite of passage to try on what works for you, but an unsustainable place to stay forever, especially if you want to maintain healthy relationships and step into your own leadership.

All that being said!

The key is not to stop growing or to try to shut off your BIG feelings, desires, impulses, passions, fears, yearning, and hunger for life.

No. Forcing is a recipe for eating yourself from the inside out.

What I teach instead is how to fully inhabit your obsession--not the ick or the confusing habits that come with it--but your raw erotic, life force energy and potential.

There is a holy, earthy, dynamic, fiercely clear, boldly creative, sharply focused, and fiery expression begging to make contact with you and the rest of the world...and the world wants it too.

When you're passionately alive, everyone will take notice.

(That's thrilling and terrifying, I know!)

Small examples, it's the phenomena of people flocking to you when you're swept away with inspiration, when your husband finally understands what you're trying to say when you get righteously upset, or being approached by dozens of strangers on the street when you've been crying all day...it's because FINALLY your heart, truth, and RADIANT expression are out in the open...and somehow they just FEEL that frequency of alive, buzzing, receptive YOU. Not the words you TRY to squeeze your truth in, but the actual texture of your cosmic self.

Does that mean to have to always be in perfect flow or hurl yourself around weeping and fussing all the goddang time? No, silly.

It means that just as you commit to stretching before a workout, learning the steps to a dance, along with many other things that require experience and repetition...there is an invitation here to get WAY more aware of the shapes you make and the energy you feel and transmit so you can WIELD it powerfully with your posture, eyes, laugh, growl, deep breaths, pauses, all consuming urges, hip wiggles, and springy steps....

How My Naturally Psychedelic Healing & Relationship Embodiment Sessions Help you Get There:

We start with your misaligned beliefs, physical speedbumps, and confusion you feel in your system. With somatics, counseling, and energy medicine, we discover what can come up for review and resolution and dissolve the barriers that make you feel that your obsession is a problem rather than an asset.

THEN, in beautiful concert with this unblocking and dissolution of outdated programming, we plug in new pathways and knowledge including sensual expression, life force energy for creativity of all kinds, and relationship strategies that actually work!

All of this can happen in one session, and even better, can unfold and grow into something undeniably, irrepressibly YOU each time you return.

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