Unconventional Insights for Deep Love!
Your Complexity Is My Specialty
I offer individual and couple coaching where you will learn a new way to talk about your emotions, trauma, and relationship challenges without repeating yourself or getting lost in analysis.
Instead, you will experience deep relief and healing as you playfully grow into satisfying, sustainable, and spicy intimacy.
Interrupt Your Patterns, Not Your Life
You don't have to run off to into the hills and restart your life as a constantly meditating healing machine to transform your social and intimate life.
And, no, you don't need to blow up your relationship just because you're feeling stuck or triggered, and you certainly don't need to settle.
You just need someone who can see you under the muck.
I will help you shake off the weight of old patterns and learn how to feel ALIVE, connected, and empowered in your love life starting now.
Secure Love Is Sexy
Forever change the way that you relate to yourself and others...and feel pretty hot about it, too.
We all want to be lit up by intimacy whether it's in the first glance with a new flame or a familiar embrace with a long-time partner.
I know that excitement and depth can exist together no matter what stage of relationship you're in.
That's why my approach to attachment, anxiety, conflict, and attraction prioritizes both Security and Spark.
Get started now by booking a Deep Dive Intro where the shift begins right away. This isn't a typical intake session where you waste an hour catching me up on old stories. We'll get right into it!
You don't need endless self-help techniques
or years of therapy to create epic intimacy
What makes this method so effective?
First of all, I will help you calibrate your energy and nervous system so you can drop the anxiety, drama, and defense mechanisms that block your flow and keep people from feeling and seeing you as you really are.
Second, whether you sign up for a Deep Dive, a SOMAGICK Energy & Embodiment Tune Up, or a premium package, I will slow down your venting, mental chatter, and arguments to help you connect with conscious and subconscious feelings that are living in your body and lurking in your dynamics. Acknowledging these feelings can resolve years of confusion and chronic issues.
Third, relationship and intimacy counseling just works better with a specialist.
I am big time believer in LOVE, HOPE, and DREAMS. That is why my work is tailored specifically to relationships and the unique challenges we face in connection with others including the effects of anxiety, stress, attachment, complex trauma, and social conditioning.
I am also trained and well-versed in sexuality. Even if we never talk explicitly about your activities in the bedroom, my intimate lens and shame-free approach allows you to show up as your whole self without compartmentalizing aspects of yourself that may not feel safe to share in mainstream or clinical spaces.
We're not just chatting, we're evolving in real time.
Book Now and feel the magic for yourself...
"A Pleasure to Have in Class"
Many of my clients are talented professionals, artists, and therapists or healers themselves and they come here because this embodied transformation is unmatched.
All of these folks feel the difference from traditional therapy right away and are often blown away as they realize all of the ways they have been analyzing but not truly feeling themselves until now.
It doesn't matter what specific challenge you come to work through. It could be anxiety, heartbreak, a physical difficulty, coping with lifestyle shifts, or a desire to come out of hiding as the incredible person that you are.
A common quote around here is, "I feel transformed after just one session!"
It's true. I know how to go beyond the question or the problem and get to the real heart of the matter. Wherever you want to go, I can take you a step further than you can imagine on your own.
Don't Believe me?
Ask the dishes....
"That was better quality, felt better, and was more intimate than every certified relationship therapist I have ever been to."
"I leave our sessions feeling so validated and like everything I feel makes sense."
"I feel more at peace now than I ever have."
"The work you do is so special and rare. I don't now how to capture it in words."
"I feel so much more powerful in my body andI'm grateful for that."
"We've done couples therapy with a PhD psychologist and didn't even get to 10% of what we covered in here in just a couple of sessions."
"Thank you for holding so much space and for completely fucking up my world."
"You taught me what it actually means to self soothe and now I know how to manage my relationship anxiety."
"I've felt a major shift in how I show up in relationship. I am able to catch my triggers and anxiety so much quicker before putting pressure on my partner to fix it."
"Another side effect of intimacy coaching. Letting all sorts of people in when I normally wouldn't."
"Compared to regular therapy this is so much more purposeful, with a clear goal."
"It's like loving each other really well at whole new level thanks to you."