Your complexity is my specialty.
Hi, I'm Veronica -- Certified Somatic Intimacy and Relationship Coach aka Indelicate Coaching. Come discover the sweet spot where conversation meets nervous system healing to help you playfully grow into satisfying, sustainable, and spicy intimacy.
Interrupt Your Patterns, Not Your Life
One somatic experience at a time
Whether it's the shackles of perfectionism, the shadows of social anxiety, or the rough seas of relationship turmoil, there's a path to healing. Through a combination of practical communication tools, body awareness techniques, and somatic parts work, we'll embark on a journey of deep understanding and lasting change.
Secure Love Is Sexy.
In our sessions, you will forever change the way that you relate to yourself and others...and feel pretty hot about it, too.
We all want to feel lit up by intimacy whether it's in the first glance with a new flame or a familiar embrace with a long-time partner.
I know that excitement and depth can exist together no matter what stage of relationship you're in.
That's why my approach to attachment, anxiety, conflict, and attraction prioritizes both Security and Spark.
You don't need endless self-help techniques
or years of therapy to create epic intimacy
What makes this method so effective?
First of all, I will help you calibrate your energy and nervous system so you can drop the anxiety, drama, and defense mechanisms that stop your flow and keep people from feeling and seeing you as you really are.
Second, I will slow down your venting, mental chatter, and arguments to help you connect with conscious and subconscious feelings that are living in your body and lurking in your dynamics. Acknowledging these feelings can resolve years of patterns and chronic issues.
Third, relationship and intimacy counseling just works better with a specialist.
My work is tailored specifically to relationships and the unique challenges we face in connection with others including the effects of Anxiety and Complex Trauma. I am also trained and well-versed in Sexuality. Even if we never talk explicitly about your activities in the bedroom, my intimate lens and shame-free approach allows you to show up as your whole self without compartmentalizing aspects of yourself that may not feel safe to share in mainstream or clinical spaces.
"A Pleasure to Have in Class"
What my clients have in common...
Energy. You're sensitive to it and you create it. Not all of you will realize just how well this describes you until you have done a couple of sessions.
You get that there is more to sex and connection than the obvious and do your best to be open-minded (even if intimacy is uncomfortable for you). Some of you may be going through a time of change or a renaissance in your sexual expression.
You have probably tried therapy, meditating, exercise, and all manner of techniques and trends to be the best version of yourself. You have endless smarty pants things to say about feelings and can talk circles around most healers and therapists.
...Or you're bootstrapping it by being the MOST perfect partner/parent/employee imaginable. You work so hard to be everything to everyone and you do it with very little support.
Maybe you've been told how smart and self aware you are, yet you have the same challenges and looping patterns come up in relationships. (Did you know that anxiety and attachment style can be healed with specialized support and that you don't have to feel this way forever?)
You all teach me every day how to use my rare gifts to support rare people like you.
Many of my clients are above average professionals, artists, and healers themselves and they come here because this embodied transformation is unmatched.
All of these folks feel the difference from traditional therapy right away and are often stopped in their tracks as they realize all of the ways they have been analyzing but not truly feeling themselves until now.
It doesn't matter what specific challenge you come to work through. It could be anxiety, heartbreak, a physical difficulty, coping with lifestyle shifts, or a desire to come out of hiding as the incredible person that you are.
A common quote around here is, "I feel changed after just one session."
It's true. I know how to go beyond the question or the problem and get to the real heart of the matter. Wherever you want to go, I can take you a step further than you can imagine on your own.