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Because I bet your therapist has
never called you 'good girl'.

Veronica of Indelicate Coaching offers an embodied and relational counseling method that is more effective than traditional talk therapy for healing relationship wounds and expanding your nervous system capacity for deep, sustainable, and spicy intimacy

Meet Veronica

Certified Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach

aka Indelicate Coaching

Secure Love Is Sexy.


In our sessions, you will build resilience, heal anxious and avoidant tendencies, interrupt sticky patterns, and forever change the way that you relate to yourself and others...and feel pretty hot about it, too.

We all want to feel lit up by intimacy whether it's in the first glance with a new flame or a familiar embrace with a long-time partner.

I know that excitement and depth can exist together no matter what stage of relationship you're in. 

That's why my approach to attachment, anxiety, conflict, and sexual attraction prioritizes both Security and Spark. 

You don't need endless self-help techniques
or years of therapy to create epic intimacy

What makes this method so effective?


First of all, I will help you calibrate your energy and nervous system so you can drop the anxiety, drama, and defense mechanisms that keep people from feeling and seeing you. As you become more available for connection than ever before, people will become naturally drawn to you.

Second, I will slow down your venting, mental chatter, and arguments to help you connect with conscious and subconscious feelings that are living in your body and lurking in your dynamics. Acknowledging these feelings can resolve years of patterns and chronic issues.


Third, relationship and sexuality exploration just works better with a specialist.

Even if we never talk explicitly about your activities in the bedroom, my intimate lens along with a kink-positive and shame-free approach allows you to show up as your whole self without compartmentalizing aspects of you that may not feel safe to share in mainstream or clinical spaces. I'm here and ready to grab the popcorn for your juicy reveals!


Finally, although we will never date or sleep together, as a coach, I get to play outside of the typical boundaries of therapy and bring my whole flirty, somber, human, messy, saucy, potty-mouthed self to our sessions. I just know your therapist can't lighten the mood with playful terms like 'Good Girl'. (Don't fret, Good Boys and Gentlethems are also welcome in my virtual office.)

"Ok, but wait...
How do I sign up?"

Easy. Schedule an hour-long drop-in session
or a deep dive any time
. No strings attached.
Both couples and 1:1 welcome.

Want to try the stronger stuff?
Read all about the intensive journey that is
the year-long Intimacy Immersion.


You will come away from every session energized and with actionable feedback.


Whether it's your first time or we've been working together for months, you're going to get priceless wisdom combined with embodied healing to sustainably implement your new skills.

We're not just chatting, we're evolving in real time.

Don't believe me?
Ask the dishes...

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Interrupt Your Patterns; Not Your Life....
And Finally Get the Real Intimacy You Desire

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