Healing & Fixing & Wellness (Oh MY!)

Bones Break and So Do Hearts

(From the newsletter May 12, 2025)

The healing sphere is a snake eating its own tail, but who am I to step aside and disown my calling just because a bunch of bitches in wide brim hats are playing pretend?

I'm feeling today's Full Moon in Scorpio big time as it touches the parts of my chart that are about self-expression, mission, visibility, and long-term vision.

This makes me want to tell you the truth about how social media and trying to think through the strategery of what 'should' go into an email has squeezed me into near lifeless silence in the exact same way that some of us might habitually dim our light in relationship as we struggle to find the 'right' words or not be too much in any given moment.

(Sound familiar?)

I truly bend all the way over backwards to distance myself from pop culture's obsession with therapy, healing, and misrepresentation of spirituality....because it is my professional opinion that it is making us cuh-razy pants and creating overthinking that may not have even been there otherwise.

I've been wracking my brain for years now for ways to 'sound different' from a culture that pathologizes humanity with diagnostic terms (for EVERY normal little thing about being a person) by trying to find new titles for myself and all sorts of alternative phrases for 'healing' until I find that I'm barely saying anything directly anymore.

(Don't even get me started on the algorithm.)

There are so many stories I haven't told you. So many unshared insights. My drafts folder is genuinely about to explode.

There's this kind of silly thing in my *Indelicate* world where I get to say whatever swears I want and talk about butts WHENEVER but words like Healing, Fixing, and Spiritual have become my personal taboos.

I have truly forced myself to edge of suffering to avoid ever getting lumped in with watered down instagram spirituality that really just feels like striving in disguise.

I mean...what if people think I'm....one of those spiritual folks...what if people think I'm ignorant and divorced from reality and science?

And! AND! God FORBID, (clutches pearls), I ever say anything that might lead you to think you need to be fixed or hurts your feelings? GASP!

But here's the thing. We've all been through some sh%t!

Just as we all long to be held by a lover who knows what they're doing, who isn't afraid of our feelings or needs, and maybe even long to be that lover, friend, parent, neighbor ourselves...

We NEED people who can confidently and clearly heal what ails us physically, emotionally, AND spiritually.

I need that, and I would never trust someone who did not show a clear understanding of some sort of cosmic bigger picture beyond our own human bellybuttons and I ABSOLUTELY would NEVER hire someone who didn't come right out and say, "Veronica, I know how to take you where you want to go and show you that it's possible to feel how you want to feel ((even when you are being a stubborn little tw@t))."

I wanna know that the people who support me will do more than pass along a step-by-step method. I want their artful interpretation as it applies to me specifically and I want to *feel* their magic working for me. I want to be cared for!

I mean it, when I hear a professional tip-toe around their own talent, vision, or ability by suggesting that you, the client, are here to "heal yourself," I always imagine...what if a masseuse or a barber or a medical doctor said that?

Weird as HECK.

So let's try this instead:

I'm here to heal and fix what isn't working for you with a combination of wisdom, skill, intuition, and energy healing that works whether you understand it or not.

"If something is broke we're gonna fix it..." kind of energy.

Matter-of-fact Magic.

(Maybe some weird, unexpected magic too because my sessions are anything but typical.)

Committed and devoted to supporting you in your high standards and burning desires.

Allowing you to show up, yes, but also RECEIVE.

Healin' and Fixin' as in Repatterning and Return to Innocence ~~Cue 90's Healing Music~~

I am here to repair and recalibrate your emotional and relational ruptures, the ones you know about and the ones that might be mysteriously moving through you, ready to be resolved.

I wanna support you through the most complex parts of your journey so your life can be more simple and joyful and sweet. So you can feel more of the world around you in a GOOD way, ALIVE way...in a *put-down-the-overthinking-and-overexplaining-yourself-and-have-a-nice-time* kind of way.

Because bones break and SO DO HEARTS and sometimes our habits and beliefs and feelings get so off, that, YES, they need to be fixed. Not *us*. WE are not broken, but the patterns of our behavior? Those could probably use some loving attention, yeah?

So while it may be true that there is nothing wrong with you, it's also true that we all need a little (or a lotta) help sometimes and it is the biggest pleasure and HONOR of my life to be that spiritual healing guide for you.

Here's to more truth telling and less worrying about how it looks or sounds.

Do you have an inkling of where the Scorpio full moon (or just plain old Monday) is tickling your life? Are you feeling yourself get closer and closer to speaking up or owning a little more of yourself in Life or Love? Respond to this post and tell me what's alive for you now, fellow truth teller!