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Everything About You Makes Perfect Sense, My Darling
Everything about you makes perfect sense because of.... The way your cells were formed in your mother's womb... The nervous system you...
Veronica Puryear
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Healing the Subconscious
I've been doing a lot of work with my subconscious lately. I'm healing old wounds so I can welcome in new gifts. Based on crying volume...
Veronica Puryear
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I'm Difficult, a Lone Wolf, Avoidant, Protective, Perfectionist...
I'm talking about me this time. A coach called me prickly today. The big trigger. That I'm perceived as hard to understand and difficult...
Veronica Puryear
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What Is A 1:1 Session Like? What Can I Expect?
What happens in a session? ***Please note that all sessions are fully clothed and that we will not have intercourse.*** In sessions, I...
Veronica Puryear
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Why do I feel bad about wanting attention?!
#1 It is human nature to desire attention and for many people there is no such thing as too much. BUT! You feel shame about wanting...
Veronica Puryear
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How Even Givers Make This Mistake In Love...
This just needs to be said. Love is not a thing you "get" from someone. Are you treating Love as something transactional or like a...
Veronica Puryear
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Giving critiques can often feel more familiar and easy than giving love
Sometimes judgement feels like the only safe way to say, “I care.” Being sincere is hard and vulnerable. Intimacy, true vulnerable...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
We Are Not Meant to Heal Alone
I see you with your books. Trying to find the perfect juice cleanse, tapping on YouTube, swallowing up every podcast you can find. And I...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
Why is Women's Pleasure so Elusive?
Why is women’s pleasure such a mystery and why are we so quickly resigned to believing that we have gone as far as we can with it? I’ve...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
The Person Who is Blowing Your Mind is here to Show You What is Possible
(That Doesn't Mean you Have to Be Together Now or Forever) I hear this a lot, and I’ve experienced it myself. Trust me, because I only...
Veronica Puryear
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Am I Difficult Or Am I Courageous Enough to State My Needs?
Normalize having desires… and actually making them known! I get pretty emotional in the part of my workshop where I ask you to imagine...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
You Are So Lovable...That People have Tried Anyway Despite Their Own Limitations
REFRAME: you are not a failure because unavailable people did not choose you. You are, in fact, so lovable that they simply had to give...
Veronica Puryear
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Too Much Self Reliance Blocks Intimacy
Anybody else self-reliant to a fault? I’ve been having a rough day today and my avoidant tendencies tell me that nobody wants to hear...
Veronica Puryear
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We Teach People How To Love Us...Make sure you're teaching the right things...
All your life you’ve been teaching people how to love you…and they are watching VERY closely. They see the things that light you up… They...
Veronica Puryear
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"You're The Sex Mother I Never Had"
One of my clients called me this. The Sx Mother She Never Had. And it’s not just about the birds and the bees 🐝… I’m teaching people...
Veronica Puryear
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Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy are a guarantee of anything
Words and labels are meaningless without explicit and ongoing agreement between you and your partner(s). No one relationship dynamic is...
Veronica Puryear
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When someone tells you that they're triggered, that's a vulnerable invitation to love them more
When someone tells you that they're triggered, they are essentially giving you the cheat codes on how to love them. A trigger is...
Veronica Puryear
2 min read
If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
Veronica Puryear
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People of all genders experience relationship anxiety
People read text messages over and over. People lay awake in bed replaying the thing they did or didn’t do. People freeze up and can’t...
Veronica Puryear
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You’re not broken.
You can have healthy relationships of all kinds. I see you....over-identifying with a label, an attachment style, or a diagnosis. You...
Veronica Puryear
1 min read
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